You Are the Musical Bridge: an Ode to Mark LaRue
I watch life—
the movement of words traveling from lips,
open arms embracing love,
the studious, the solitary,
the tired, the inquisitive,
the excitable—
souls congregating in one space of time.
Strangers balance upon the same thread of fate,
sipping coffees, eating cakes,
filling their voids,
their need for life.
Fairy lights twinkle against a gray autumn sky.
Red flowers blaze in stark contrast,
and I feel like I am in Oz.
Everything simply is—
except for you.
Judgment intervened,
and the angels asked.
Two paths diverged for your consciousness,
and you, being ever brave,
chose to leave.
Music and love surrounded you,
a playlist of songs carrying you home.
“Sweet dreams, baby… how long must I dream?”
played as your breath stilled—
a final lullaby.
Your daughter’s hand upon your wrist,
feeling for the last pulse.
A single tear slipped down her cheek.
The clock read 1:22 p.m.,
as time itself bowed its head.
Many gathered by your side,
for you filled the world with music and joy.
Because of you, strangers
grasped and hugged one another tightly,
forgetting they were strangers.
Your soul—
a musical bridge for love.
You always chose your own thread to balance upon,
and walked the path of divine trust and creativity.
Your talent spirited you away in life.
It carried your soul to faraway places—
Asia, Europe, America.
Crowds danced and cheered as you played.
You opened for iconic artists,
and became iconic yourself—
inducted into the Hall of Fame.
Not many realize the power,
the necessity of the bass.
You were the backbone, the pillar, the atlas—
holding the band upon your tall, broad shoulders,
as you held your family and friends
with your incredible, expansive love.
You are the musical bridge.
You are the warm embrace.
You are the goofy grin,
the laughter,
the knowledge.
You are the passion—
reciting every artist, every track, every producer on a 45.
You always had a story to tell.
Your soul tasted many slices of humanity,
every flavor of love.
You were beautiful,
as are those you leave behind:
your wife, your sister,
your daughters, your grandchildren;
your nieces and nephews,
your great-nieces and nephews,
your friends, your bandmates, your community—
the world.
I watch life,
though you are no longer in it.
My breath still steady,
though my heart bears another cut.
I remind myself: there is no death,
only transference.
I know you are looking down—
upon those who need you,
upon those who miss you,
upon those who love you.
You are the musical bridge.
16 Comments
Hallie
What a beautiful way to remember him. Thank you!
Patricia A Kilgore
What a beautiful, thought provoking, loving tribute. So well said. With every word full of love.
Gayle Merry
Beautiful😍
Zoe
Beautiful. Only transference.
Candi Todd
This is so beautiful and comforting, Susannah. My heart goes out to everyone mentioned in this remembrance… this shared love will bring sweet thoughts of a life well-lived and, eventually, a path to healing for all. Bless you and everyone in Mark’s realm
Joan De Loretto
Mark will always have a warm place in my heart. I will always amile when I think of him. This poem is a beautiful tribute. Thank you for sharing.
Katy Powell
Wow, I’m smiling through my tears and trying to breathe. What a beautiful tribute Susannah. It was so bittersweet to be with you all by his bedside. To meet your beautiful sensitive children. So many memories, so much history. Tina, I think of you every day. I will come visit you soon.
My heart is heavy and I love you all. Our paths have been intertwined for decades.
Till we meet again, Mark! I’m sure we will.♥️
Brian Knight
What a beautiful poem I had to stop a couple times to read the whole thing between the tears. Thank you for sharing this.
Kurt Bevers
Wonderful thoughts of remembrance and the impact one’s life can have. Yet another gift of Mark LaRue Todd.
David Wilds
Fine sweet words. Thank you..
Christina Nieschmidt Todd
Too perfect.
Raymond Gysler (Kelly)
I had just told a friend about Mark because is an aficionado of music from the 60’s and 70’s. He immediately found The Distractors online.
Raymond Gysler (Kelly)
I had just told a friend about Mark because is an aficionado of music from the 60’s and 70’s. He immediately found The Distractors online. Sorry we didn’t spend a little more time together over the years.
Robin Gore
You have captured Mark’s gentle, creative spirit. Thank you, Susannah.
Sher Alltucker
Such a beautifully written, heartfelt expression of love and words that paint a picture of Mark.
Scott Anderson
A wonderful poem for an unforgettable guy.